Some Christians teach that God does not love everyone, or that He only loves the people chosen for salvation. The claim may come from an attempt to take judgment seriously or protect a doctrine of election. Either way, it deserves to be checked against Jesus before it settles into anybody’s mind.
Start with the verse children know
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.” (John 3:16-17)
The movement of the passage is simple. God loves. God gives His Son. The Son comes to save. People are then called to believe. “World” is a strange word to shrink into “the small group God had already decided to rescue.” John could have said that. He did not.
John returns to the same point: God’s Son is the atoning sacrifice “for the sins of the whole world” (1 John 2:2). The offer is not pretending to be wider than the love behind it.
God loved us while we were His enemies
Romans 5:8 does not say God began loving people after they responded correctly:
“God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
Love moved first. A few verses later, Paul describes us as God’s enemies when we were reconciled through the death of His Son (Romans 5:10).
Jesus tells His followers to love their enemies and pray for persecutors so they may be children of their Father, who gives sunlight and rain to both evil and good people (Matthew 5:44-45). Our enemy-love is supposed to resemble the Father. It would be odd for Jesus to command a love broader than God’s own.
What about verses that say God hates?
The Bible does use severe language. Psalm 5:5 says God hates evildoers. Romans 9 quotes Malachi: “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.” We should not hide those texts.
“Love” and “hate” can describe covenant choosing and rejection, not an emotional claim that God feels no concern for a person. In Genesis, Leah is described as “hated” in older translations and “not loved” in others because Jacob preferred Rachel (Genesis 29:30-33). Malachi is speaking about Israel and Edom as peoples long after Jacob and Esau died.
God truly opposes evil. His wrath is not fake. Yet the God who judges evildoers is the Father Jesus says gives them rain, calls them to repentance, and teaches His children to love them. One kind of statement should not be used to erase the other.
Love does not mean approval
Modern speech sometimes treats love as unlimited affirmation. Biblical love wants the good of the person, which means it tells the truth about what destroys them.
Jesus loved the rich young man and then confronted the thing that owned him (Mark 10:21). The man walked away. Jesus did not chase him with a cheaper command, and the man’s refusal did not make the sentence “Jesus loved him” untrue.
God’s warnings matter because people matter. Judgment says cruelty, exploitation, lies, and stubborn rejection of life will not rule forever. Love without justice would leave victims abandoned. Justice without love would never send the Son to rescue sinners.
Does God really want all people saved?
Paul asks believers to pray for all people because this pleases God our Savior, “who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth” (1 Timothy 2:1-4). He immediately adds that Jesus “gave himself as a ransom for all” (1 Timothy 2:6).
Peter says God is patient, “not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance” (2 Peter 3:9). Ezekiel records God saying He takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked and calling them to turn and live (Ezekiel 33:11).
Some systems redefine “all people” as all kinds of people because universal love causes trouble for a prior doctrine of limited election. But the trouble belongs to the system, not to the words. We can let “all” mean all and still acknowledge that people refuse.
Jesus wept over that refusal: “I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were not willing” (Matthew 23:37). His desire was real. Their unwillingness was real too.
What this changes today
If God loves every person, there is nobody you are allowed to treat as disposable. The angry neighbor, the addict who relapsed, the person arguing online, the prisoner, the relative who wants nothing to do with faith. Love does not require trusting unsafe people or calling evil good. It does require wanting their healing and refusing to enjoy their destruction.
Pick one person you have quietly placed outside God’s concern. Pray for them. Then do one thing Jesus would recognize as love: tell the truth without cruelty, carry food, listen, forgive, set a clean boundary, or offer the hope of the risen Jesus. God loved the world. We do not get to make it smaller.